It's okay sometimes for your kids to be disappointed. I’m talking about this morning is that when the kids get older and they get out there's gonna be an an area of disappointment that they're going to experience and if they don't experience some level of disappointment today they're not going to be able handle it as adults.
I just want to tell you parents don't beat yourself up today. If there's things that you can't do for your kids and I really see this a lot in in guys that our coach today that have done very very well financially and they think well because I've done well financially I've got to give my kid everything that they want. That is not true! I can just tell you right now that is not true! I want you to give your kids the things that you think that they need and things that they don't need, don't give it to them. I don't care how much money you've got because you're not doing yourself or the kid any favor whatsoever and giving them everything that they want, that's just not reality. That's not what life is going to do for them long term. If you don't teach them to deal with disappointment today, they won't be able to deal with
disappointment as an adult.
Topics:
Motivation,
Accountability,
Family,
Balance,
Community,
Relationships,
Success,
Significance,
Priorities,
Tips,
Commitment,
Move Forward,
Discipline,
Clarity,
Development,
Burden,
Decisions,
Crossroads,
Encouragement,
Lift Someone Up,
Discouragement,
Leadership,
Father,
RoadMap,
Communication,
Growth,
Determination,
Execution,
fingerprint,
Attitude,
Vision,
Mission,
Joy,
Truth,
Schedule,
Obstacles,
Belief,
Legacy,
Purpose,
Value,
Journey,
Complaint,
Freedom,
Grit,
Heat,
Focus,
Improvement,
Goals,
Trust,
Possibilities,
Story,
Expectations,
Processes,
Differentiate
If you have lost someone, there’s a time we need to grieve but there’s a time to pick yourself up and move move on. There are people around us - - - our spouse, children (and grand children, if you have any) who are being cheated as a result of you not moving on do the things that you regularly do - things that you enjoy and love doing.
My encouragement to you today is, or my question to you is, don't you think it's time to move on? I mean isn't it time whatever that is, whether it's a business loss, I don't know maybe it's a relationship that went bad, maybe it was a divorce, maybe it was a financial crisis, maybe you were bankrupt or you keep kicking yourself and blaming yourself. Well guys listen, primarily I'm talking to you men, we have people counting on us and depending on us and we have responsibilities to our family first of all. Your family may be tired of you wallowing in your sorrows - pick yourself up and MOVE ON!
Topics:
Motivation,
Accountability,
Character,
Balance,
Relationships,
Success,
Significance,
Priorities,
Tips,
Persistent,
Move Forward,
Clarity,
Development,
Burden,
Decisions,
Crossroads,
Wisdom,
Be The Light,
Rest,
Discouragement,
Leadership,
Guide,
RoadMap,
Growth,
Determination,
Advice,
Influencer,
fingerprint,
Attitude,
Vision,
Mission,
Joy,
Truth,
Obstacles,
Belief,
Legacy,
Evaluation,
Personality,
Habit,
Journey,
Grit,
Mindset,
Focus,
Insecuriy,
Improvement,
Goals,
Testimony,
Identity
Avoid living your personal life like playing not to lose and not to win. I'd like to encourage you to do that. Do not be afraid and tackling things that come in our way. We need to be going forward. Guys, we cannot live so conservative, run the clock out, be complacent (like what's being done by a winning team in ball games when the game is about to end) and not living to win, we are living to protect and to not lose. You will avoid boredom by "playing to win". You will be successful by "playing to win". Life is an adventure. Go forward. Press on!
Topics:
Accountability,
Character,
Success,
Significance,
Priorities,
Tips,
Commitment,
Move Forward,
Blueprint,
Clarity,
Development,
Decisions,
Crossroads,
Wisdom,
Encouragement,
Discouragement,
Leadership,
Guide,
RoadMap,
Growth,
Determination,
Execution,
Advice,
Authenticity,
fingerprint,
Attitude,
Vision,
Mission,
Vision Driven Leader,
Obstacles,
Expectation,
Legacy,
Evaluation,
Habit,
Purpose,
Value,
Journey,
Connections,
Grit,
Focus,
Occupation,
Goals,
Possibilities,
Expectations,
Testimony,
Identity,
Processes
Hey, I want to talk to you about something difficult. Some of you need to fire somebody! And I mean, you need to do it today! This is about taking personal responsibility. Well some of the people that work for you, in your organization, are not taking personal responsibility and it's time they are leaving! It is time to fire time, it is time doing them a favor, as well as you and everybody else in your organization. And I want to tell you, it is not easy!
Topics:
Business,
Accountability,
Character,
Balance,
Relationships,
Success,
Significance,
Move Forward,
Discipline,
Clarity,
Burden,
Decisions,
Crossroads,
Wisdom,
Discouragement,
Risks,
Leadership,
Guide,
RoadMap,
Communication,
Execution,
Advice,
Mission,
Obstacles,
Expectation,
Evaluation,
Purpose,
Value,
Journey,
Grit,
Focus,
Improvement,
Goals,
Empathy,
Expectations
What are you going to do if you are in a bleak or unfamiliar situation? Are you just going to sit there? Do nothing? Just sulk in a corner?
Topics:
Motivation,
Accountability,
Masterminds,
Relationships,
Success,
Significance,
Priorities,
Tips,
Commitment,
Persistent,
Move Forward,
Clarity,
Development,
Decisions,
Crossroads,
Wisdom,
Encouragement,
Discouragement,
Leadership,
Guide,
RoadMap,
Communication,
Growth,
Determination,
Perseverance,
Execution,
Advice,
fingerprint,
Strategy,
Vision,
Mission,
Vision Leader,
Obstacles,
Experience,
Belief,
Legacy,
Evaluation,
Purpose,
Journey,
Rejection,
Connections,
Mindset,
Heat,
Pressure,
Focus,
Conflict,
Possibilities