20 years ago when my friend, Bob Warren, started mentoring me and coaching me he taught me to listen better. I want to tell you it is difficult! We would go to restaurants and we would talk. I'd be looking around the room to see who was in there, who was coming in and he would say, “listen, you got to focus, you've got to make eye contact with the person you're talking to and not be thinking about what you're going to say next. You need to pay attention to what they're saying because people only remember how you make them feel and you make them feel unimportant when you don't pay attention to what they're saying.
I'm going to tell you, I'll just be very honest and transparent with you that was difficult for me. For a long long time, it was like every time you were talking I was thinking man I got something to say. I can match that i can one-up! I can't wait till they take a breath so I can interject! I want to tell you it takes a lot of discipline and a lot of wherewithal in order to withhold the things that you want to say! Listen, what they say is important!
Topics:
Character,
Balance,
Relationships,
Success,
Significance,
Priorities,
Commitment,
Discipline,
Clarity,
Development,
Listen,
Decisions,
Crossroads,
Encourage,
Encouragement,
Guide,
Advice,
Influence,
Authenticity,
fingerprint,
Truth,
Obstacles,
Expectation,
Legacy,
Habit,
Purpose,
Audience,
Journey,
Connections
There are some things you are doing right in your life right now, you're killing it! Focus on that! Enjoy the success of the things you've been able to accomplish. Some of the things you've mastered! Relish on the fact that you are unique! You've got great talents!
Topics:
Motivation,
Character,
Masterminds,
Fun,
Success,
Significance,
Faith,
Priorities,
Move Forward,
Integrity,
Clarity,
Reputation,
Self Development,
Listen,
Encourage,
Encouragement,
Guide,
Determination,
Trusted Advisor,
Advice,
Influence,
Authenticity,
unique,
Joy,
Truth
Do you want to know how much is enough?
Let me tell you, you should be asking an entirely different question!
It has nothing to do with sacrifice.
Topics:
Accountability,
Character,
Masterminds,
Balance,
Community,
Relationships,
Success,
Significance,
Priorities,
Tips,
Move Forward,
Preparation,
Discipline,
Development,
Self Development,
Listen,
Decisions,
Wisdom,
Encourage,
Guide,
Growth,
Determination,
Perseverance,
Advice,
Attitude
I want to encourage you today to think about a few things, especially, if you're kind of in the limelight or if you're a thought leader or you're an author or you're a professional athlete. I want you to think about something - you are nobody without your super fans. Take a moment and show your appreciation for the people that are following you and listening to you, following your advice and idolizing you from the sides. Those people matter. Those people care and we need to show them we care.
Topics:
Motivation,
Character,
Career,
Community,
Relationships,
Success,
Significance,
Priorities,
Tips,
Commitment,
Consistent,
Move Forward,
Integrity,
Clarity,
Development,
Self Development,
Gratitude,
Listen,
Decisions,
Crossroads,
Encouragement,
Lift Someone Up,
Be An Encouragement,
Leadership,
Execution,
Advice,
Influence,
Influencer,
Authenticity
Do you know what's the secret in learning and getting better? Set aside our pride or ego for the greater good. Surround ourselves with people who are better than you.
Topics:
Motivation,
Coaching,
Character,
Masterminds,
Relationships,
Significance,
Priorities,
Commitment,
Move Forward,
Discipline,
Clarity,
Development,
Self Development,
Listen,
Decisions,
Crossroads,
Wisdom,
Encouragement
