It's okay sometimes for your kids to be disappointed. I’m talking about this morning is that when the kids get older and they get out there's gonna be an an area of disappointment that they're going to experience and if they don't experience some level of disappointment today they're not going to be able handle it as adults.
I just want to tell you parents don't beat yourself up today. If there's things that you can't do for your kids and I really see this a lot in in guys that our coach today that have done very very well financially and they think well because I've done well financially I've got to give my kid everything that they want. That is not true! I can just tell you right now that is not true! I want you to give your kids the things that you think that they need and things that they don't need, don't give it to them. I don't care how much money you've got because you're not doing yourself or the kid any favor whatsoever and giving them everything that they want, that's just not reality. That's not what life is going to do for them long term. If you don't teach them to deal with disappointment today, they won't be able to deal with
disappointment as an adult.
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Be An Encouragement,
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When I was 15 years old working at the local pawn shop this guy walked in the store one day and he pulled up in a brand new Cadillac and he was dressed to the nines. This guy had suit and tie, diamond rings, had a gold watch on. I mean this guy was absolutely decked out. I waited on him for a few minutes and then I finally just asked him because you know when you're young you don't have any diplomacy or tack. I went up to him and I said, “Hey, that's such a beautiful car you've got there! And all these diamond rings! How did you make so much money?” He started laughing and he said, “How old are you?” And I said. “Fifteen.” He said, “Let me ask you a question. If you have goals and dreams and you work really hard you can do the same thing.” I said “I know I'm probably not gonna ever have anything.” And he said, “Why not you?”
I want to ask you today, why not you you?
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Motivation,
Character,
Community,
Relationships,
Success,
Significance,
Priorities,
Tips,
Consistent,
Blueprint,
Discipline,
Clarity,
Development,
Listen,
Crossroads,
Encouragement,
Leadership,
Guide,
RoadMap,
Growth,
Perseverance,
Execution,
Advice,
Influence,
fingerprint,
Mission,
Joy,
Vision Leader,
Vision Driven Leader,
Truth,
Obstacles,
Patience,
Purpose,
Fear,
Ideas,
Ambition,
Journey,
Ask,
Grit,
Focus,
Improvement,
Goals,
Possibilities,
Story,
Testimony,
Differentiate,
Affirmation
There is no silver bullet to success. It takes time. It takes patience. You have to invest in people, in relationships before you can even expect for anything in return.
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Tips,
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Clarity,
Development,
Crossroads,
Wisdom,
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Happy,
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Growth,
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Authenticity,
fingerprint,
Attitude,
Mission,
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Obstacles,
Experience,
Legacy,
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Ambition,
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Grit,
Mindset,
Heat,
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Processes
I have just discovered over the past couple of months that there's one area that we have not fully covered in our mastermind group - we are about to spend 2 months diving deep into. John Gottman wrote a great book, The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work: A Practical Guide from the Country's Foremost Relationship Expert. Our Iron Sharpens Iron Mastermind group is going to spend June and July 2019 breaking down that book and understand the principles in it that can make our marriage great.
Guys, I'd like to tell you right now. Where things breaking down often times is at home. I'd like to ask you for a second. Where's your marriage at? Like to encourage you to think about your relationships today.
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Motivation,
Accountability,
Character,
Balance,
Relationships,
Success,
Significance,
Priorities,
Tips,
Commitment,
Consistent,
Blueprint,
Discipline,
Clarity,
Development,
Crossroads,
Wisdom,
Encouragement,
Leadership,
Guide,
RoadMap,
Growth,
Execution,
Advice,
Authenticity,
fingerprint,
Attitude,
Strategy,
Vision,
Truth,
Obstacles,
Belief,
Legacy,
Evaluation,
Personality,
Habit,
Patience,
Purpose,
Value,
Ideas,
Journey,
Grit,
Mindset,
Focus,
Occupation,
Goals,
Conflict,
Possibilities,
Story,
Expectations,
Systems,
Processes,
Differentiate
We need to stop playing it safe. Remove those golden handcuffs! Pursue your dreams or ideas. They will not come into fruition if you don't at least try. Pull the trigger now. Take the plunge. Go for it! Quit being on the fence.
Topics:
Motivation,
Accountability,
Character,
Relationships,
Success,
Significance,
Priorities,
Tips,
Commitment,
Move Forward,
Discipline,
Clarity,
Development,
Decisions,
Crossroads,
Wisdom,
Encouragement,
Happy,
Leadership,
Guide,
RoadMap,
Growth,
Determination,
Execution,
Advice,
fingerprint,
Vision,
Mission,
Truth,
Expectation,
Legacy,
Patience,
Purpose,
Value,
Investment,
Journey,
Connections,
Grit,
Mindset,
Focus,
Improvement,
Goals,
Possibilities,
Story,
Expectations,
Identity,
Processes
