You know we have so many bad habits today and I know that over the course of my career. I’ve had many bad habits that I've had to break.
Charles Duhigg wrote a great book called The Power of Habit but an exceptional book that I just finished reading is titled Atomic Habits by James Clear.
You want to implement new strategies in your life that's going to help take your life to the next level. I want to encourage you today to pick up a copy of the Atomic Habit by James Clear! There's so many strategies in there that are unique that I've never heard before and I think will help you today.
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Who are you as an individual? How do you represent yourself? Are the things that you do unconsciously or consciously represent you as a good role model? We are a role model whether we like it or not. If we're doing life together my question to you today is, is what role model are you? What activities are you doing in your life that are instrumental in family members, your children, your peers, your colleagues, those people at work that are watching?
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You can make all the money you want, you can be as successful as you want, you can impress everybody, you can own whatever but if your family is not right, it's all useless. That is why I talk about the family about 75% more times than I do business.
Robin has a sign that sits on her nightstand and it says ""always kiss me goodnight."" So for 37 years now, almost every day, every year of our marriage, about 99 and half percent of the time we always practice this.
The Bible teaches us not to go to bed at night letting the anger stay with you. You got to deal with it. And even though we've gone to bed some nights, we fight just like you do, no we're not perfect, but Robin always comes up to me and kisses me goodnight. Kind of softens the anger a little bit. We'll talk through it and work through it. It's important that we deal with things. There are other things in life that we dealt with that have been instrumenta but Robin has taken the lead role in this. She said it's not healthy for us to go to bed angry at night.
Guys I want you to honor your wife. Ladies, do the same to your husband. Maybe implement that strategy yourself and get that little sign so you can can have a great relationship. Don't go to bed angry. A lot of times people say well a good night sleep will do you good but I'm going to tell you, a good night sleep just let you be passive and you just sweep it undr the rug. And there will be a day that you'll deal with it. It will be a lot easier to deal with things that day.
Honor that covenant because it will pay huge dividends in the future. Our families are the most important relationships on the planet. So honor them well and I just want you to pay attention. Always kiss me goodnight and it will serve you well.
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Life is about the journey. It’s not just about the pentacle. It's not just the summit, whatever that is for you. We're not spending the time, the effort and the energy with our families. Quit worrying about how long it takes you to get there. It’s called living life! It’s not all about the speed. It’s all about the relationships! Enjoy the journey!
"If you scale on relationships as much as we’re trying to scale our business, you have more money than you know!" - Aaron Walker
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Move Forward,
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Reputation,
Development,
Self Development
Do not start with a new initiative on Mondays. That's how you can get rid of a stressful start of the week. Let's run the marathon and not the sprint.
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