Three years ago, I had very few problems.
In fact, I had so few problems, that I had extra solutions that I generously handed out to everyone around me, especially my wife.
I had plenty of solutions to her problems.
She had a problem with us living in New Jersey while our extended families were all in Massachusetts.
Her problem was a result of her not appreciating that the job market was tight and it would be virtually impossible to recreate my position (and income) closer to home.
My solution was for her to accept that we would be "stuck" in New Jersey for a few more years while I waited for the job market to improve....
