Clarity can be very misleading at times. Do you have a good understanding as to which path you are on and why?
Have you taken the time to thoughtfully explore all possibilities for you and your family? Among the choices that present themselves, how do you know your selection is the best? What metrics are used to decipher between good and great? Have you eliminated the obstacles in your life that would allow you to choose wisely rather than out of desperation?
My desire for you is to have the ability to pour all your energy into the things that matter. What are your hopes, dreams and desires over the next 3 years? Have you carefully crafted a roadmap to success? Or, are you just hoping you wake up tomorrow with a better position and additional money?
No one but you can determine the best course of action for your future. When clarity is absent you are causing havoc on those around you.
No one knows how to respond in the absence of the leader.
The motivation and cooperation of family and business associates are left hanging in the balance. Being a life and business coach, I’m confronted daily with clients that have no sense of clarity.
One of the largest hindrances we face today is the myriad of choices. I owned a construction company for a decade, the customers who were not confined by budget invariably had a more difficult time making decisions as opposed to those with limitations. Why?
The unlimited resources begged the question, “I wonder if I would like the other selection better”? The client that was exposed to three options knew what was at risk and gained clarity many times faster.
When we are exposed to countless choices we become confused pretty easy. Go through a process of elimination based on three simple questions:
1. Is this something I could live with long term?
2. Is this a decision that is moving me forward?
3. If my income changes will this adversely affect my family?
Asking yourself these questions will help to clarify the majority of our situations.
- I teach to take a 48-hour breather. What I mean by this is to wait 48 hours, sleep on it twice.
- When I’m forced into making a rash decision that I don’t have absolute clarity on my answer is always, NO.
- If you are not crystal clear on any major decision I suggest you seek council from trusted advisers.
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