When you compare yourself to another entrepreneur, whether on a monetary scale, experience, or scope, you may come away feeling inadequate. Comparisons of this sort are dangerous because when you feel like another individual is ahead of you in some aspect, feelings of jealousy, bitterness, and inadequacy can creep in quickly. Compare yourself closely to someone at the top of your industry and your confidence might take a hit. Conversely, if you compare yourself to others who you know you are ahead of in your field, you open the door for pride, boasting, and complacency. Entrepreneur and author Jack Canfield once said of making comparisons “I generally find that comparison is the fast track to unhappiness. No one ever compares themselves to someone else and comes out even. Nine times out of ten, we compare ourselves to people who are somehow better than us and end up feeling more inadequate.”
Topics: Life Coaching, Coaching, Character, Business Coaching, Relationships
When you hire a life coach or a business coach, one of the initial pieces of advice they will give you is to put the big rocks first.
I have devoted an entire chapter of my book View From the Topto that topic alone.
When I coach clients one on one, I tell them when they fill their schedule and calendar to be sure to put the big rocks in first.
Topics: Life Coaching, Motivation, Coaching, Balance, Tips